Creations, not Creators of Circumstance
The landscape shapes the stream, which shapes the landscape
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The stream doesn’t make the landscape
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We are creations, not creators of our situation
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Knowing this brings humility, relieving us from feeling solely responsible — and so accepting undue credit, blame and shame — for what happens to us beyond our control
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But it doesn’t remove our ability to attune receptively and responsively as best we can to the situation in which we find ourselves
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It is only the peculiar arrogance of abstract human thought, which dislocates material figure from contextual ground, that gets us into needless trouble by making us believe otherwise and think that we are free to do as we please, regardless of what follows
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See also these recent essays:-
https://admrayner.medium.com/the-carer-self-attuning-needs-and-wants-with-circumstances-b33907e33359
https://admrayner.medium.com/living-learning-evolving-292daed7c2c6